Actress Tonto Dikeh says turning 40 has brought about a significant shift in her approach to life, particularly in how she approaches her desires and requests.
The actress, on Instagram, emphasised that her needs and wants now stem from a place of self-awareness, wisdom, and alignment.
This newfound mindset, she believes, has allowed her to approach life with greater purpose and clarity.
Tonto Dikeh wrote:
“I don’t know what I am looking for, but I feel it when I find it. This is a dangerous place to be in life(mentally, emotionally, and even spiritually). It’s not a healthy state of mind, even though it seems to work for some people.
“I’m far too intentional to leave my desires vague. When I bring something before God, I give Him a detailed, A-to-Z breakdown of what I want to manifest.
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“For example, if I’m asking for a job, I’m specific. What salary I want, my preferred working hours, the kind of environment I’ll thrive in, and even how I want my superiors to treat me.
“At 40, I don’t make shallow requests. My needs and wants come from a place of self-awareness, wisdom, and alignment”.
Former Big Brother Naija star and businesswoman Uriel Oputa is dragging men who go about age-shaming women.
In an Instagram post, Uriel called out Nigerian men who shame women for growing older, questioning why a natural part of life should be used as an insult.
The reality TV star emphasized that aging is a privilege, stating that she would rather grow older than die young.
She said, “This is going to be pinpointed to Nigerian men. It is an insult to God to use age discrimination against a woman, so I posted a video and you are not coherent with what the video teaches you, what you get out of the video is ‘oh you’re getting older,’ because you’re not smart enough to digest and use the concept that was taught to you to better your life but what you hold on to is that you’re getting old.